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I woke up this morning wondering what planet I was on. On the cover of the magazines was another young dumb blond, I'll never understand people's fascination with the stupidity of others. They don't deserve attention. Just for being famous. People make stuff up just to get some attention. And that makes them dirt bags in my opinion. I think the people I hate the most are liars, fakes, losers, jerks, stuck-up-drama-queens, people who can't make their minds up because of their friends or something, people who don't tell me what's on their mind when I know they are lying and people who kill. I hate liars because of the fact that once they lie, you can't believe them from that point on. For a hypothetical example, lets say I have a friend, and this friend tells me I'm their best friend. And then the next day, they say someone else is. That's back stabbing, one of the lowest of the low things one person can do to another. I mean, think about it. "Best friend" means the one person who is your best friend. ONE person. Not three, not two, not ten, not five. ONE. That one person that you trust above all others. You know? The friend who has been there through the break ups, the make ups, the ups and the downs. The thick and the thin, the good and the bad. That friend who will stick with you through everything. It doesn't matter what they look like, who they like, what they're car is, if they buy a lot, or buy a little. I think friends should be based on these aspects. 1) Trust. 2) Reliability 3) Care 4) Honesty 5) Quality By "Trust" I mean this. IF you trust someone, you know they're not lying to you, they won't lie to people about you, they won't tell a lie just to save themselves. Trust is earned, not handed out in a little bag. Trust is a gradual thing. You have to prove yourself in their eyes. Prove that you can be trusted with anything. Prove that you won't lie to them. Prove... That they can trust you. And once that trust is betrayed, be it because a boy, a friend, a family member, an object, a word.... It's never going to be the same. Trust isn't just something that you hand out freely. You might say "Oh, I trust this person." But then they betray you. They stick the knife in deep into your back, and you don't realize it til you turn around. That's betrayl, and it's unforgivable... I have people that have done that to me. And I don't trust them with anything any more. I turned around, and I see them now for who they really are. Backstabbers. Not to be trusted... By "Reliability" I mean this. IF someone is reliable, then you know they won't bail on you. If you make plans, keep them. If your friend asks you to hang out, and you say yes, but then they call you back and say "Sorry, something came up...." Yada yada yahada. No. That's not trust worthy. If someone makes plans with you, then says "I'm sorry, So and so asked me if I can go with them and I don't want to seem...." Yada yada yahada. Then no, they are not trust worthy in my eyes. I don't trust people who don't keep their word. It's the same as turning around and slapping someone in the face with an invisible hand. It hurts in the end, even if you don't see it til it's too late. By "Care" I mean this. If someone cares about you, you know they do. They'll call you up when you're sick and let you know they were thinking about you, they'll ask your opinion on things while saying "I care about what you think because I trust you, and we've been through a lot together." They'll sit and listen for hours on end while you talk about your day. They don't ignore you for a guy, their phone, their friends... They care about you. They care if you two haven't spent real time together in weeks, and they'll set aside a whole weekend just to catch up and have some fun. That's care. By "Honesty" I mean this. They won't be sweet to you to your face, then turn around and stick the knife in. They won't talk behind your back when you're not around, they don't complain when you're not in the best of moods, they understand you, but they'll tell you their opinion first. They will be honest with you no matter what, even if it hurts you. Truth burns baby, get over it. I am a firm believer in not coddling people. That's honesty. By "Quality" I mean this. They exhibit the things you know are right. Think about it, they care, they're honest and trust worthy, and they are reliable. That's quality.
