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you'll always fall hardest for the one that deserves you the least. I think that i've figured out most keys to why a relationship would FAIL(and why i don't deserve a lasting relationship because i'm guilty of em all):
relationship key #1 TRUST: if it's a constant issue, just say goodbye to the relationship here and now. if you can't trust him/her now, you can fool yourself into thinking you TRUST them but in reality you know it's still in the back of your mind if they're lying and/or cheating. pretty much, unless you two are attatched at the hip you'll always question where the other person is and what they are doing.
relationship key #2 OVER AND UNDER analyzation.although it is necessary to look deeper into certain topics, more than likely, your or your significant other are looking into a situation more than it truely deserves. ex. significant other:"i'm gonna go now, i'm tired" you:"are you sure that's why you wanna go? what's wrong?" uhm, kids...it's a natural thing for people to be sleepy. just take it for what it is. besides, even if there is something WRONG, maybe they need to sleep it off. if it's really worth mentioning they'll tell you later. AT THE SAME TIME...there ARE those people that like to say one thing but in reality they mean totally something different. but if you're in a relationship with them, i'd hope you would know them well enough to decipher between the FACT and the MYSTERY. and although there are topics that just feel too awkward to discuss they are quite necessary to look deeper into. you can't just BRUSH IT OFF with a 'uhm nevermind' and expect the situation to go away. just deal with it then and there. if they can't communicate back with you, then it means that you're not worth his/her time and just let it go before you try to push to make a relationship RIGHT with mr(s). WRONG. ya feel me?
relationship key #3 INDECISIVE THOUGHTS. listen. if you don't know what you want. don't drag anybody else down with you. that just makes you a jerk and while they're genuinely starting to care for you.. you're just stringing them along until it doesn't work out in the end because in all honestly you never REALLY wanted to be with them you just desired that attention.
relationship key #4 OVERPROTECTIVE DEMANDS, IRRATIONAL ACCUSTATIONS, and BULLSHIT EXCUSES. it all goes back to trust.pointblank if you are overprotective..you don't trust them to make smart enough decisions on their own about where they go and what they wear. irrational accusations and questions come from YOUR insecurities. the whole world is NOT out to get you and NOT all men are dogs and not all females are SLUTs but if you expect someone to be like that, then they will be. and if you feel the need to make up bullshit excuses then you're afraid of your lover. uhh.. bra? like how do you expect to be with someone if you're too scared to tell them where you are. BESIDES, if you're feeling guilty about where you are, maybe you shouldn't be there anyways.
SO, IS MY RELATIONSHIP WORTH SAVING>?>??"" that's on you. people change.. as always..they HOPEFULLY will mature. and if you can't do it yourself, then don't expect it from another. what it comes down to(which sounds soo cliche) it's really just communication. if you can't be true to yourself, then don't expect that you'll be true to them. don't give something you don't have. and don't shout out empty promises. just because you crave attention doesn't mean you deserve to hurt someone else. at the moment it may feel like 'i love you' is the right thing to say, but unless you mean it.. don't say it. and if you feel something, let the other person know, don't beat around the bush..it'll just lead to confusion and even more difficulty to communicate. point being: everything is do-able and fix-able, but it's only upon yourself to decide if it's worth the time.never expect something you can't give in return. love is an asset. never should it become a liability. it's a privilege not something you deserve. so cherish it and don't take it for granted. be true and genuine, because if you are you'll never have a reason to feel guilty. besides, true love never fails.
breathetoday added this comment 2008-01-17 21:21:38-06:00
your words got cut off make the boxes bigger and the font smaller
deezee added this comment 2008-01-17 19:37:22-06:00
Not Bad
breathetoday added this comment 2008-01-17 21:21:38-06:00
your words got cut off make the boxes bigger and the font smaller
deezee added this comment 2008-01-17 19:37:22-06:00
Not Bad